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The Blank Slate

Source: https://images.app.goo.gl/KFQNdh7oMDhqZAid9 When people say "just be yourself", I find it difficult to really understand what they mean because sometimes, I am even sure what it's like to be me... don't look at me that way, I'm sure the thought has crossed your mind too. The funny part is that when you have to go for something serious like an interview or to give a speech while telling you to be yourself, they also say you should be confident, be funny, be this and that, what if me being myself is just me being boring and being shy and being messy? Again, have you noticed that we tend to pick up characteristics (sometimes unconsciously )when we hang out or date certain people? For instance, if you did not eat chocolates a lot, you might notice an increase in the quantity of chocolate you eat when you have a close friend who you hang out with a lot that loves eating chocolates. The same thing goes when you naturally don't talk much about your