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Source: https://images.app.goo.gl/KFQNdh7oMDhqZAid9 When people say "just be yourself", I find it difficult to really understand what they mean because sometimes, I am even sure what it's like to be me... don't look at me that way, I'm sure the thought has crossed your mind too. The funny part is that when you have to go for something serious like an interview or to give a speech while telling you to be yourself, they also say you should be confident, be funny, be this and that, what if me being myself is just me being boring and being shy and being messy? Again, have you noticed that we tend to pick up characteristics (sometimes unconsciously )when we hang out or date certain people? For instance, if you did not eat chocolates a lot, you might notice an increase in the quantity of chocolate you eat when you have a close friend who you hang out with a lot that loves eating chocolates. The same thing goes when you naturally don't talk much about your

                      Me: Oh my god, I'm so tired today Her: You are always, tired, every time tired, are you pregnant? Me: (laughs) Maybe, I'm probably pregnant, who knows. plus I'm hungry too. Her: (irritated) Didn't you eat in school today? You are supposed to have a plan, the number of hours you will spend in school and... ...I've never been so angry for being hungry and tired, I'm probably angrier because I am trying to bring up a conversation to remove the awkward silence between us as we cooked dinner, the only thing in my head was the topic of my hunger and tiredness and she took that information, wrapped it so tightly with so much disgust and irritation for complaining so much and spat it back at my face. I've just been ruminating over the conversation we had all evening, turning it over and over in my mind. Why would she say that to me? what does she even take me for? the overly tired, always complaining ass whose problems can

You see, in as much as we want to make it, I’ve come to realize that making it involves a continuous struggle to keep learning, keep striving and keep improving. The first goal might be to be the biggest artist, however, in the next 5 years, the goal has to change because no one can be the biggest forever, however, we can continually improve on our plan to fit into the life ahead of us because truth is, we constantly outgrow our goals but can not quit trying to be better versions of ourselves. 

Source: https://images.app.goo.gl/95dFsfC7kuqHW92g7 Once upon a time, a country was known for it’s wealth, a people were known for their hard work and how they are never afraid to speak out. People from other African countries wished they had a link to us, they wanted to be associated with Nigeria in some way, we were known as the giants of Africa, maybe it’s because of this confidence that our government felt they’ve done enough and decided to relax and loot the cake that is supposed to be shared amongst everyone, they just didn’t care anymore, after all we are the giants of Africa and once a giant, always a giant, forgetting that even giants need to be nourished and taken care of else they would shrink to dwarfs, now we’ve become the laughing stock of the world. Lately Nigeria has been all over the news for all the wrong reasons, in a bid to level up, our youths are becoming fraudsters, I mean why won’t they be celebrated when the thieves in politics are celebrated simply b

Right now, it's really disturbing that almost everyone in our present generation is somewhat crazy about sex, they talk about it on every social media platform, they give references to it, joke about it and also upload videos and images emitting sexuality. I'm not saying it's bad to be fully aware of ones sexuality but is it the most important thing in our plate right now?  I mean, not to sound like a kill joy but isn't it disturbing that now it seems child molestation is on the rise, rape cases and so on and if you check well, it might be tied to the excessive sexual content that is seen every day, some times it's so difficult to avoid even though we are supposed to protect ourselves from such exposure. Even if you are sexually active when you clearly aren't supposed to be, why should you be arrogant about it and show everyone how sizzling and probably enticing you think you are or rather, can be. Now almost every girl wants to be round and protruding in t

                       Source:https://images.app.goo.gl/msyNmHPBYtn2P2678 Do you feel frustrated because you can't find your keys? You remember leaving them on the table but it's just not there anymore. Do you think the weather is too hot and too cold and the same time? When you have the blanket on, it's too hot but when you take it away, it's just too cold. Were you gifted a car.. Any type of car - but you are feeling frustrated that it wasn't the benz you asked for? Do you feel like destroying the TV simply because the remote isn't working? Do you feel like it's not fair for apple to keep producing new iPhones when you haven't enjoyed the last one you bought, now you have to get the latest? Are you really angry that the network is soooooo slow that you feel like leaving Earth to Mars? -There could be better network there, who knows. Are you so pissed off because the wire of your ear piece keeps tangling and no matter how many times yo