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Hi guys, I know it’s been a pretty difficult period as a result of the current pandemic. Some people can barely feed or do the normal things they usually do.  However, I would really like us to think of some good things that have happened as a result of the lockdown. For instance, I sleep more... lol!  I am getting thicker and fuller in all the right places ;) I have also learned new skills like data analytics and a bit of web design and so on.  If you are reading this, I would like you to leave a comment on some things you’ve managed to do or learn during this period which you probably might not have achieved that much rapidly except for the lockdown. 

Source: https://images.app.goo.gl/KFQNdh7oMDhqZAid9 When people say "just be yourself", I find it difficult to really understand what they mean because sometimes, I am even sure what it's like to be me... don't look at me that way, I'm sure the thought has crossed your mind too. The funny part is that when you have to go for something serious like an interview or to give a speech while telling you to be yourself, they also say you should be confident, be funny, be this and that, what if me being myself is just me being boring and being shy and being messy? Again, have you noticed that we tend to pick up characteristics (sometimes unconsciously )when we hang out or date certain people? For instance, if you did not eat chocolates a lot, you might notice an increase in the quantity of chocolate you eat when you have a close friend who you hang out with a lot that loves eating chocolates. The same thing goes when you naturally don't talk much about your

                      Me: Oh my god, I'm so tired today Her: You are always, tired, every time tired, are you pregnant? Me: (laughs) Maybe, I'm probably pregnant, who knows. plus I'm hungry too. Her: (irritated) Didn't you eat in school today? You are supposed to have a plan, the number of hours you will spend in school and... ...I've never been so angry for being hungry and tired, I'm probably angrier because I am trying to bring up a conversation to remove the awkward silence between us as we cooked dinner, the only thing in my head was the topic of my hunger and tiredness and she took that information, wrapped it so tightly with so much disgust and irritation for complaining so much and spat it back at my face. I've just been ruminating over the conversation we had all evening, turning it over and over in my mind. Why would she say that to me? what does she even take me for? the overly tired, always complaining ass whose problems can