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A Generation of Sexuality

Right now, it's really disturbing that almost everyone in our present generation is somewhat crazy about sex, they talk about it on every social media platform, they give references to it, joke about it and also upload videos and images emitting sexuality.

I'm not saying it's bad to be fully aware of ones sexuality but is it the most important thing in our plate right now?  I mean, not to sound like a kill joy but isn't it disturbing that now it seems child molestation is on the rise, rape cases and so on and if you check well, it might be tied to the excessive sexual content that is seen every day, some times it's so difficult to avoid even though we are supposed to protect ourselves from such exposure.

Even if you are sexually active when you clearly aren't supposed to be, why should you be arrogant about it and show everyone how sizzling and probably enticing you think you are or rather, can be. Now almost every girl wants to be round and protruding in the seemingly right places as a way of attracting the opposite sex, I'm not saying you shouldn't attract o, just try not to lure innocent people into entanglements they can't get themselves out of simply because you can't get a hold of yourself.

Well, what do I know? 

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  1. We lost our kingdom identity. That's what happened, now wrong is good, and everyone is confused. It's a product of the age we are in. Noah's generation before the flood.

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